"Blood transfusions saved Charlotte's life"


Alasdair and Charlotte last summerWhen his daughter Charlotte was born prematurely, Alasdair Low, 41, felt helpless as his baby girl was given a series of life-saving blood transfusions

"Giving blood is something I used to always think about doing but never quite got around to. I'd see adverts campaigning for donors and, if I'd been asked, I'm sure I could've recited how and why it is so important to give blood. But it wasn't until I had to watch my baby girl, Charlotte - who was born 16 weeks early - undergo eight blood transfusions in her first few weeks of life to correct anaemia of prematurity, where the iron levels in red blood cells are low which makes it more difficult for oxygen to travel around the body, that I truly realised how vital it was.

"My partner Samantha, 39, and I were beside ourselves when we were told she would need transfusions. It was a terrifying time for us; our baby had been born so early and was so small - just the size of my hand - it was hard to think of her going through something most adults would find hard to handle.

"I'll never forget the day Samantha told me she was pregnant. It was 22 February 2007 and I'd just pulled up outside the house after work when she came running to the front door and blurted out that she was expecting. I couldn't believe it - we were both so happy and excited.

"We couldn't keep the news to ourselves and, instead of doing the usual and waiting until we reached the 'safe' marker of 12 weeks, we called our families straightaway to tell them the good news.

"Samantha's pregnancy was fine, she felt - and looked - blooming. I think that's why we thought it was so weird when she woke up complaining of pains in her tummy in July 2007. She told me not to worry and we both went off to work as normal, but just a few hours later at 11am, Samantha called me to say our midwife had referred her to Frimley Park Hospital. I met her at the hospital and there we were told Samantha was in labour. She was only 24 weeks pregnant.

"Unfortunately, Frimley Park lacked the facilities to deal with a baby being born so soon and we were transferred to St Mary's Hospital in Portsmouth, which was a 1½-hour drive away from home.

"We saw various consultants over the next 72 hours, who explained that the baby had only a 20 per cent chance of surviving the birth and then a 30 per cent chance of surviving to be healthy. It was almost too much to take in and we both cried our eyes out.

"At 1.30pm on Sunday 15 July 2007, Charlotte was born and within seconds, was whisked away from us into an incubator, hooked up to a multitude of tubes and taken to the neonatal intensive care unit on the other side of the hospital. Our daughter was gone and we didn't even know what condition she was in.

"Just minutes later Samantha began shaking violently - she'd gone into septic shock as the placenta had broken apart inside her and was poisoning her - she had to undergo surgery to have it removed immediately. During surgery she also developed breathing problems, and a blockage in her lungs was discovered.

"I spent a nervous few hours outside the operating theatre and a sleepless night watching over Samantha in intensive care - I really thought I was going to lose both my girls that day and didn't know how I would go on without them. Thankfully, Samantha pulled through and was out of intensive care by the following day.

"That's when we went to see Charlotte for the first time. It was so emotional, she weighed just 1lb 9oz; I had never seen a baby so small. Her skin was transparent and looked like that of a little old lady, all wrinkled and skinny. We could see her ribcage; she had no fat on her body.

"But, even with all these feelings going on, we had nothing but love for our tiny little baby and quickly forgot about all of the pain of the previous 72 hours. She was our little miracle.

"Charlotte spent 98 days in special care, during which time she had her fair share of trials including a heart murmur, infections, meningitis and anaemia of prematurity. To look at her now I can hardly believe it, she's a bouncing 18 month old with the most beautiful smile in the world.

"If the blood she needed hadn't been available she might not be with us now. That's why I now give blood as regularly as I can, especially over the festive period. Most people have their minds on other things then and stocks run low, putting babies born too soon or too sick, like Charlotte was, at an even greater risk."

Charlotte aged two weeks

Bliss is working with the National Blood Service, Welsh Blood Service and Scottish Blood Service to raise awareness of the crucial importance of blood and platelets for sick and premature babies…

Together they will be launching a Christmas campaign to highlight how blood donors play a vital role in helping to provide the right care for sick and premature babies.

Last year alone, the Service issued over 50,000 units of paediatric whole blood and nearly 12,000 units of paediatric platelets to neonatal units throughout the country.

For more information visit www.bliss.org.uk


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