April 2010 - On the couch

ON THE COUCHAre families happier living in the city or the country?

Three Candis readers discuss the benefits and downfalls of residing in rural and urban areas, sharing their opinions and views on family life in each.


ClareClare Hayes, 30
Lives in Morecambe with her husband and four children aged between 
two and ten. She describes the seaside town they live in as a good compromise between city and country life.



SueSue Bennion, 52
Born in London, she lives on the edge of the city in the house she brought her three grown-up children up in. She loves the quiet of the countryside but would find it hard to move from London.



JenJennifer Knight, 36
Lives with her husband and two daughters, 7 and 3, in Wellington, a town in Somerset. She's lived in London but, having been brought up on a farm, much prefers living in the country.



What do you think are the benefits to living in the city or the country?

Jennifer: "The space! Until my daughter was five, we lived in a small country village and we all miss the open countryside. We walked and cycled more after work and at weekends then and we were definitely healthier."

Clare: "I grew up in the country and, as a child, come summer, we'd be playing in the river and up the trees. It was absolutely fantastic. But as I got older there was nothing to do; there were no entertainment facilities or shops or anything, and I think it was hard on my mum and dad as any time we needed to go anywhere, it meant a 20-mile drive. I definitely couldn't live in a very rural place now, although I do miss it."

Jennifer: "Another plus side of rural places though is that they often seem to have a greater sense of community."

Sue: "Yes, but the benefit of living 
in a city is that there are plenty of things to do with children - lots of parks, museums, theatres, workshops and so on, which is brilliant. The downside is that you don't see much greenery outside of parks. I'm sure a lot of children never get to see rural life. Mine did because I would take them out for days at the seaside or into the country, but for others it's quite an adventure to go to those kinds of places."

Clare: "I found it a complete culture shock when I moved from the country at 16. I only went to a small town really but the kids there were completely different and so much more streetwise. They thought I was bizarre as I'd grown up running around in fields and climbing trees. To them I was just a bumpkin."

Sue: "I bet many children in London wouldn't know how to climb a tree or even how to play with sand."

Jennifer: "When we lived in the country and my daughter was winding me up, I'd just put her wellies on her and we'd go and walk the dog, blasting away all the cobwebs. Now we live on the outskirts of a town and it's just not the same, we don't have that option."

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