The circle of love comes back to you

Dedicated to my mother who has Vascular Dementia 

So much and for so long

You gave me so freely

Brought me into this world

And showed me the way

How to step up and branch out

To know right from wrong

You sang me my very first memorable song

Showed me with patience how to draw

Tended my cuts when they were sore

Took me to exciting new places

And so I grew

You were my role model

Never selfish with money

Not materialistic it was there to enjoy

We haven't always had it easy

Not always seeing things eye to eye

Funny how life can change things

And how roles can be reversed

It's a part of a process and sadly cannot be rehearsed

Gradually I noticed changes

You seemed to be slipping away

Simple signs that something wasn't right

I'm glad I took time to notice

For we had a bigger battle, together we would fight

Just like it was when I was little

Only now I will get you through

Thanks for all you did for me mum

I am returning it with love from me to you

By Virginia Rance


Comments:

"A lovely poem, and one that many can relate to. For me it was my father who became the child. The father who had always been physically strong, who had the knowledge and the time to answer any of my questions as I grew up. He was a great role model to us and our children. I now have memories of two fathers, the strong one and the vulnerable one, and I loved them both."

Mary Brown - Monday 13th Sep 2010

"How lovely & so true 4 most of us roles do reverse"

David & Lydia Coles - Thursday 17th Jun 2010


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